Dating a bisexual girl
Despite identifying as straight myself I love the idea that you fall for a person and not the gender.
I think we should follow a similar ethos and get to know people who identify as bisexual for who they are rather than instantly writing them off as soon as we discover their sexuality.
Approach meeting new people the way you would any other stranger, i.e. Don’t treat new people as conquests (at least not right away).
If you click and there’s chemistry, then by all means pursue it, but don’t treat every poly event like a sex party.
At most, it’s evidence that the cheater is not presently cut out for monogamous dating. We’re too scared to swing the door all the way open with a fabulous “We’re here!There are genuine gents out there, like me, who like to date both genders. You Gov recently found that 43 per cent of 18-24-year-olds did not identify as gay or straight. Name: Kellie Age: 28 Job: Account director Ok so for me it’s pretty simple.You don’t need a GSCE in maths to realise that makes bisexuality the second most common sexuality in the UK (in that demographic). I wouldn’t date a bisexual guy because a part of me believes that you just can’t be a 50/50 bisexual person and what I mean by that is that you are always going to be attracted to one sex a lot more than the other.” Unfortunately for my ex, and other bisexual men and women, those of us who use a bisexual identity as a “halfway house” contribute to the widespread negative notion that anyone who identifies as bi is actually a flimsy, half-hearted gay man or lesbian.
It’s one reason why so many bisexuals — my ex included — feel excluded from the LGBT movement.
And I didn’t — that is, until my phone buzzed with a text message from a name I never expected to see on my screen again: “Do you want to get coffee? I needed to tell him I was sorry; he needed to tell me how much I hurt him. Since that day, I’ve reflected on the lessons the relationship taught me, and what I learned from him he was bisexual. He was drawn to men and women, while I was only drawn to men, but that didn’t make him any more promiscuous or untrustworthy than the next guy. In fact, he was unbearably monogamous and loyal to a fault.